By Marcia Norris and L.A. Walker
We acknowledge that dementia is a significant condition. It is crucial to treat those affected with respect and empathy. However, amidst the seriousness, moments of humor birthed by caregivers’ responses can bring a smile to our faces.
In our dementia dramedy infused with music, “The Wonderful World of Was,” my co-writer Marcia Norris and I portray some lighthearted moments gleaned from actual events. As the saying goes, “You can’t make this stuff up.”
One incident stands out vividly in my memory. It was a late night, around 2:17 am, when my spouse abruptly awakened me. She stood before me, holding two Massengill bottles with toothbrushes inside each. In her groggy state, she proudly announced that she had just washed our toothbrushes. At first, shock washed over me, but it quickly transformed into internal laughter. I wasn’t laughing at her but rather at the absurdity of the situation. I couldn’t help but wonder how long I had unknowingly been brushing my teeth with Massengill.
In that moment, I realized that even amid dementia’s challenges, there can be moments of unexpected humor. I was reminded that joy is often hidden within the quirks and absurdities of life. It’s important to remind ourselves during turbulent times when we feel like the wheels are coming off our lives and we can’t find the brakes to stop the madness that laughter is in our toolbox. Laughter can help us say “screw you” to unpleasantness and help us navigate difficult days with giggles and gratitude.
Laugh loudly. Laugh often. Laugh alone or with others. Don’t tell “Big Pharma” that laughter is the best medicine and free!